Gift of Fear — Reader discussion

I found Gift of Fear to be incredibly eye-opening, especially in how it emphasizes the importance of listening to our instincts rather than dismissing them as irrational fears. Gavin de Becker uses real-world examples to show how subtle signals can warn us of threats before they escalate, which makes the advice feel tangible and urgent. It’s not just about fear, but smart awareness. Did any particular story or example in the book change the way you think about personal safety?

What stood out to me most in Gift of Fear was the way de Becker dismantles the stigma around fear, showing that it can actually be an essential survival tool rather than a weakness. The book gives concrete strategies for recognizing warning signs in everyday interactions, which I think everyone should know. It’s empowering to feel more in control by trusting your gut. How do you think this book could influence how society talks about and responds to violence prevention?