Raising an emotionally intelligent child — Reader discussion

I found Gottman's approach refreshingly clear and actionable—he breaks down complex emotional concepts into manageable steps that parents can apply daily. His idea of 'emotion coaching' really resonated with me, especially how it encourages parents to validate their kids’ feelings rather than dismiss them. This not only builds trust but also teaches children to understand and regulate their emotions. Has anyone else tried these techniques with their children, and what changes did you notice?

What stood out to me was how the book balances empathy with discipline, showing that emotional intelligence isn't about letting kids do whatever they want but guiding them thoughtfully. The examples Gottman shares about handling tantrums without escalating conflict are especially useful. It made me rethink how I respond in stressful moments, aiming to model calmness and understanding. For readers, do you think these strategies would work equally well across different ages and temperaments?